[Quynh Do]

HEIP PLEASE!.
My son is almost 18 year old. He was very agressive from age 4 to 9. We spent a lot of therapy hour , diet, oxygenated and a lot of outing community. His behaviour was improving huge . He seldom to have agressive toward the other or himself. He become more calm, cooperated and happy child even though he still have rough day some time but it is nothing compare when he is younger. But all of sudden for almost 1 week lately , he become very aggression toward me. It occurs 1 or 2x per day , some time when I tell him to eat just stand beside or all of sudden he just become very angry for no reason. I took him to hospital for check up to make sure his physical is ok .The doctor think it is just his autism behaviour , because he is reaching the purity state The doctor did the blood , urine and ear exam but everything is ok ( 3 years ago in the pass , for a couple day , he was very aggression toward any one near by , after going to bathroom. We didn't know why tilll we found out that he had bladder infection Cruz his urine smell so strong, then he got treat for that problem and the behaviour is gone ). But this time I didn't know what cause,, his sleeping and eating is ok as usual. he look tense and angry easy . I am too afraid of being around him. I am so depress of worrying that , his behaviour will become permanent from now on , then I don't know how to deal with it and I really don't want to put him on any medication unless there is really no choice. ( We don't have any consultant for a long time because it is difficulted to find the good one after trying some , but it didn't work out and my son continue doing well , so we just focus on his life skill, community outing and fun activity ). But now, I don't know what to do , do any of you have same experienced?, or any suggestion?, please share with me and also, I am looking for the doctor , who have more experience about ASD as well , your time is great appreciated . My email is fishanoi@yahoo.ca. Thank you very much in advance ( sorry my English skill is very poor )

[Quynh Do]

HELP!. Hi there! my son is 17,5 year old with low funtioning. lately , he has difficult time with dental work due to his sensory issue. i am thinking of changing the dentist place for him ( he use to go to MONARCH dental but i heard that there is the place in Vancouver General Hospital ,they specialise about adult with autism ). i would wondering if any one have any experienced ?, feed back? or any suggestion please. Thank you very much in advance. my email is fishanoi@yahoo.ca

[Quynh Do]

I would like to say thank you to all you, who sent me the feedbacks and supported regarding on my son' s behavior. It is great and very helpful. As I can't be able to email my thankful to individual. I just want to say Thank you very much to all of you!.

[Quynh Do]

NEED HELP!. Hi there!. My son is 14 year old with mild autism. He got diagnosed when he was 9 year old. We been doing therapy for him for 3.5 years , but then ,my consultant is not available any more ( Lisa Wincz was our son ' s consultant ). When we did the therapy before, we just worked on his social skill and academic only, not on behavior , because, at the time, his behavior was not an issue, eventhoght, he is always a stubborn kid ). We haven't been done therapy for 1,5 years beside tutoring and a little playing sport . He ' been doing good at the school, and managed ok at home. I mean, his attitue is ok and he does his chore. But start beginning of this school year, his behavior is getting very bad. I just moved to a new place for almost 1,5 years. He has to take the bus to school . He hang out with one of the kid in our neighbor. This kid is not s good kid. He swears alot. I tried to explain to my son , but the more I said, the more he hang out. He start to swears at me, hit his brother ( my younger son has autism as well and he is so scared of his brother). He got angry very easy, when he angry , he tend to be aggressive. Now, he doesn't want to listen any more. He would go out without letting me know where he is. Every night , we have to fight to get him to bed , otherwise, he keep watching tv or play computer. If I take all the electronic away for grouded, he got really mad and he willswears at me and become aggressive. And he will go out more . Every morning, we have to drag him out of bed for the school. He doesn' t want to eat either. Some time, he doesn't eat breakfast, and not even bother of eating lunch either. I ' been attend parenting group for teen, try a diigirent way, and it seem nothing work , some time , the sittuation is out of my hand, no matter, how much I tried. I feel hopeless. I feel failed. I am dread,worry for my son' future. Is this all this atitude and behavior is just because he is teenager like some of the other typical teenagers states?,or is this is a beginner of the worse?.One of the parent that I know, they have to give up their kid for the social government , because, they couldn't handle their teenager daughter any more. I really don't want to make this decision , but some time for my younger son safety, I feel I may have to. I am stuck. I talked to his school. They said he is doing ok at school, but not open up about his behavior at home. He did not open up with me either. I wonder , if any of you have exprience on similar situation? , or know any consultant is good with the teenager ?. Any feed back is great appreciated. Thank you in advance!.

[Quynh Do]

* THANK YOU!.
I would like to say thank you to all those parens , who share your story, who give me all the inform, support and feed back regarding on my son bolting on street from his school. It is very helpful and big support to me.Because I am so busy and don't have much time to send email to each of you indivisual, but I am very, very greatful for all of your feed back. Thank you very much again!.

[Quynh Do]

My son is low level concept of safety . Today, in school, he bolt away from his T.A and run away accross the street.Luckily, he was ok, but it is make me very worry. He usually ok at home around my neightborhood, when I walk with him on street, he usually hold on my hand . (He some time bold away from me when we walk in the park, but never run away on the street).So I don't know what to do. We try to get to my consultant, but she live oversea. We will have teammeeting with the school next week regarding on this incident. I am just litle worry that because of this issue, they may not let my son go to shool ?. In the past ,we have had tought time with the school for a while . We just fought back and finally, we got our T.A to come in school to work with my son. But she only work part time with my son in school only. Do any of you have the same situation or any idea of what to do in my situation , Please help me out. I am so grateful for your time. Thank you in advance.Please email me at fishanoi@yahoo.ca

[Quynh Do]

We are looking for 1 more therapist working with my 10 year old son. No exprience require, but helpful if you have exprience with children. You can be his SEA in shool too. We are living in Abbotsford for now, but will move to Langley in next 3 month. If you are interest , please email me at fishanoi@yahoo.ca. Thank you.!

[Quynh Do]

Looking for ABA therapist for my 9 year old autistic son, no exprience require, trainning will be provide. We are living in Abbotsford now, but we will move to Langley in next couple months. We are also looking for his T.A , who can come to work with him in shool next year. If you are interest, please email me at fishanoi@yahoo.ca. Thank you!.

[Quynh Do]

Hello everyone!
I would wondering if anyone of you were attending the workshop call: THE ART OF ADVOCACY FOR PARENTS OF CHILDREN WITH SPECIAL NEEDS present by Clair Schuman on FEBUARY/02/08 yesterday?. This workshop talk about how to handle the problem with your child 's school.I am so regret , because , I was mistake of the time. I taught it will be next Satursday on FEBUARY /08.I am so frustrated, because lately, I have some issue with my son's school,regarding on his behavior, so this workshop is very helpful for me.I just wondering if any one of you was attended that workshop, would you please share with me . I would really greatful. My email is fishanoi@yahoo.ca. Thank you in advance.

[Quynh Do]

APPRECIATED!

I would like to say thank you to all the
feedback that you send me regarding on the O.T. Your time are great appreciated. I am sorry , I should send an email with my thank to every single of you, but I am always hyper buzy mom , I don' t have a lot of time. I would like to say thank to the FEAT too. It is very helpful,supporting. It is great. Thank you again

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